As for keeping your house, Oklahoma is equitable distribution state. Therefore, the Court will make a decision regarding the division of marital assets based on what is equitable and not 50/50 although it may wind up that way. In Oklahoma the Court would enter an order confirming in each spouse the property owned by him or her before marriage and the un-disposed of property acquired after marriage by him or her in his or her own right. As to such property, whether real or personal, which has been acquired by the parties jointly during their marriage, whether the title thereto be in either or both of said parties, the court shall, subject to a valid ante-nuptial contract in writing, make such division between the parties as may appear just and reasonable, by a division of the property in kind, or by setting the same apart to one of the parties, and requiring the other thereof to be paid such sum as may be just and proper to effect a fair and just division thereof. See Oklahoma Statutes Title 43, Section 121.
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