I live in N.J. and I just bought a house in Summerland, NV.My ex says he will not sign consent letter for my 17 yr old to move with me unless I sign a document that we had an agreement that he would give me $45, less a week. That was supposed to be for 3-5 weeks and he continues to this day. That was Jan.2007. Feels like "coercion-extortion" to me. I don't know the law but, I don't think I can legally sign away my sons court ordered support $'s, and I flatly said NO! My son wants to move as I was extremal careful about the homes I looked at (schools had to be a 9-10) and they even have a Jr College program in which students can finish up there junior year and senior year, while taking collage courses. He's been "bullied" to the point of self mutilation here at Toms River South and he very much wants to move with me. EVERYONE asks me WHY I never put him through probation as my my "liberal" # XXXXX owes me is $10,500.00, I've had some personal issues and he always threatened me that he'd take my son away if I rock the boat. My mother
has arthritis in both hips and feet and I have 11 damaged dicks that don't do well in the N.J. winter climate. My son is a BIG BOY and has told his father in no UN certain terms that he wants to live with me and my mother, NOT HIS FATHER AND STEP MOTHER. In N.J. how old does a child have to be before I can take him out of state with out fathers consent? Also this man runs a large car dealership and his wife also works 60+ hrs a week. I am on disability and grandmother is retired. Tomorrow I am going to probation and then filing a motion to get my son"s money back, as I take care of 3 persons on $14,000 a year and he makes $120,000.00 or more, not including the new wife, $60,000. I also found that he is supporting his parents in a UPSCALE retirement community in Laguna Hills CA but not paying for his son the amount listed in divorce
. Obviously I can not afford a family law
attorney, so any help or info would be greatly appreciated.