I am a grandmother of an almost one year old little girl. Her mother
is my sons X girlfriend. This X keeps texting me nasty texts, threatening
me and now saying I will never she her (Jemma) again. These texts are totally unprovoked by me. I don't ever even talk to her. My son is currently living with me and trying to get on the right track. The mother is 18 years old, has 2 kids by 2 different fathers (one being my son) and is currently shacked up with my nephew! (Yes I no, very bad situation). I am going to file a restraining order
against this girl next week. I have done nothing to her but be patient and try to help her when I can and buy things for BOTH those babies even though the little boy (almost two, isn't related to any of us).
I want to know what to file to help my son gain custody of the little girl. The home those babies are in, theres a lot of drugs and drinking going on daily. My nephew drinks daily. He's my nephew, but alcoholism
runs in my family, and he doesn't even have custody (or even sees) his own daughter.
My husband is a 13 year career Colorad State Trooper, I work part time at the local hospital and live in a very comfortable nice home. Again, my son (19 year old dad to the 9 month old baby girl) also lives with us at this time. He is trying to save money and get an apt. of his own. He too hasn't seen her in a few months because we live 90 miles away and to try to communicate with the X is impossible. She is ignorant, mean, hateful and unable to communicate with. Therefore impossible to deal with. Also, there is a restraining order already against my son (which isn't bad) that she refuses to abid by and constantly had been bothering him with very hateful texts, voice mails, etc.
I also have been around law enforcement (thats how I meet my husband) and have the ability to research Colorado Revised State Statue. I am in fear for both those children, but can do nothing for the little boy who is not biologically my sons. (Even though for a long time she 'claimed' he was his, we had a paternity test
down and it shows that he is not!)
I need some help not only for that little babys safety, but so that my son can gain custody in the end.
Help.....Sue (concerned and worried grandma)