Ok, Let me reword the question. I'm sorry if it was confusing. Me and my boyfriend (Timmy) broke up, with 2 children that we shared together. He is on the birth certificate of both. Previously we discussed in the first question about how to get my visitation's inforced. I thought at a later time about the issue that my oldest Child, Timmy, may not even be his child. When I got with (him) Timmy, I found out I was pregnant, REAL SOON. So in the back of mind, and I believe him and his family too, there has alway's been doubt about the paternity
of Little Timmy. Here's the problem. I do not have custody. Timmy has Temporary custody of both of them, from where he took them by expart order, 2 years ago. He is denying my visitation, which we are currently working on the papers, thanks to your advice, to get those reinforced. But I BELIEVE he is raising a child that isn't his, and that he is not entitled to. The ex- boyfriend (Jonathon) that is the possible father, is willing to do a paternity test, to solve the mystery. Timmy, the man with my children, would be the unwilling particiapant, just because it goes down to the control issue again. Is there ANY way that I can take Timmy to court, (the second man) and demand a paternity test of him. Again, this is in North Carolina. God Bless you, and Hope you and your's had a great holiday. I didn't, he refused to let me see the children. Told me to Mail the presents, just like I had when I sent him certified letters for court.