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You can serve your husband through his attorney ONLY IF his attorney will agree to accept on his behalf. Thus, you would have to call his attorney and ask if he would accept process for your husband. If he says "no", you will have to have him personally served.
A process server generally can do this more effectively than a law enforcement officer. Also, the best place to serve most people is at their place of work (assuming they're not traveling salesmen, truck drivers, etc.).