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Legally the answer is No. The child support you pay due to the court order is to include money she should give to the child for lunch or prepare a lunch for the child to take to school.
However, after 10 years it could be possible for the mother to file a modification of child support to ask the court to reconsider the payment amount and adjust it for inflation as well as new income levels.
The decision is up to you but if you do give her the lunch money I suggest you give it to her by check, money order or some other means so you have proof.
Does this still apply if I take my son to school when he is under my care and time spent with me?
Yes it still applies.
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