You did answer my question, but can i expand on that...
If I did take them out of state w/o his permission, would that go against me when determining custody? (Im almost positive it will end in divorce
) We have lived in AZ for past 8 yrs and have been in the process of relocating back to Denver, or so I thought?! We met in NE , where I grew up, moved to Denver, then to Phoenix. After starting our family (our boys are 2 and 5) and losing my father, I have wanted to move closer to family, neither one of us have family in Phoenix. My family is in NE, my husbands in Denver and Kansas. It has really been me pusing for Denver. My husband agreed to move when I found a job. The plan was after I had secured a job, we would make arrangements in Denver, my husband would help us get settled and then go back to Phoenix until things were wrapped up...I would have a support system to help w/ boys if I needed. I few days after I accepted a position, he said he wanted a trial separation
while I got settled in Denver and he would keep the boys here, which is not ok with me. Over the last week I found out that his plan is to have me go solo and claim abandonment
and file for temp custody...something along those lines. I just want to