Her legal name is XXXXX XXXXX Patricia van Dockum, she kept my name marrying another man. In child support
court she hypenathes it with her husbands name Hedman, so Patricia van Dockum-Hedman (hyphenating 2 husbands?). In family court its patricia van Dockum. Her husband is being investigated by the dmv for identity theft. They bother every visitation, my 8 yerar old daughter says, they will never leave us alone.
They are viciously after adopting my daughter and continously harrass me, I cannot anything done, when the judge finally warned her in family court about that even a suggestion of disrting or interfering with communication (4 cell phones destroyed, a 5th returned twice and daughter is always overheard, would cause a serious change in custody, we got another judge. This judge gave her attorney fees because i was in his opinion overly litigious, but it wasnt even my filing. last time i filed was in 2009.
My ex is friends with a to deputy district attorney, she hates me because my best friend married her and i didnt want to be the best man, because he didnt love her. current judge worked with her.
cps and the school are also against me, because my daughter is really a fun special girl and the stepfather (who lives accross the school) has something big in common i heard, They both had their children taken away from them because these children didnt want to be with them anylonger.
I couldnt get my ex to cooperate to get rid of lice for 8 months, I decided to put my foot down, if I have my daughter 27% of he time, and I do everything according the book, and my ex doesnt want to do the work, the principal is responsible to report this issue to the SARB, but she didnt want to this, she became mad instead, told the attorney from the school district to write me a warning fro a restraining order
if I would contact anyone at the school. Principal allowed not only lice at school, against pediatrician's written request they let her run at school. Her knees started to lock up (3X) but she is not allowed to tell me. she told the 4th grade teacher who is overviewing the running field during breaks. Those connections are blocked (school responsibility??)
ans so forth, and so forth