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The telephone calls and the emails made in the last two weeks with the intention of settling this legal battle did show effort on your part. The problem is you really don't have anything to negotiate with.
I saw the house/sale offer and the threat of appeal, but neither holds water. First, the house should already be on the market. Not negotiable.
Of course you can appeal to a higher court to further delay, waste time and money. Since you were not successful in your first appeal, and I am reasonably confident you won't be in the future. If your strategy is to further delay your obligations, the courts will not tolerate it. In fact we fully intend to get a favorable ruling tomorrow that you will be responsible for my attorney fees incurred and lost wages as a result of this continued nonsense. Your sanctions will only keep growing and there really is no need for that to happen.
You are in trouble Me. You need to see this - everyone else does. Tomorrow, you will be held in contempt of court and you will be arrested and locked up. Your first contempt of court count (cash) bond will be equal to the amount of money the court has mandated you owe me. ($7K). You will not be released until it is paid in full. I fear that the judge will also hold you in contempt for the other matter as well.
I am sure you think that your March payments will gain you favor in the courts. It is an effort, but not nearly enough. I am trying to get you to stop and not force the court to do the inevitable. I do not want this to happen. I have never wanted this to happen but you keep going and going. Your futile actions are causing this. This is not the result of anything I have done or am doing. STOP!
I propose we craft a final agreement and prevent this from going any further.
My Requirements - Must be accepted before the hearing @ 2:00 on Friday - 4/1/11
A year ago I offered to drop the motion to vacate the child custody orders if you just agreed to vacate the DVO? You refused. I can only assume XXX pushed you to take the deal, but you refused to negotiate at all. If you would have taken it, everything would be different. You have played hard ball all along, and now you are in trouble.
Now it is time and you must agree to the conditions above.
This is what you will get in exchange:
I know you think you can change the judge's decisions, but it is not going to happen.
Please carefully consider this and agree to stop this nonsense.
can i tale this to court and use it against him.
so that statement at top of the page has no validity?
thank you so very much on this quick asking for your help. I really hate these threats and it just brings back too many bad memories of what he has done to me and obviously wants to continue to do to me.
I appreciate all of your help.
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