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Need help waiving spousal support in a California divorce of over 10 year marriage.
Have docs from legal zoom & they are unable to continue this due to specific language the court needs.

 

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Submitted: 772 days and 8 hours ago.
Category: Family Law
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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 8 hours ago.

Hello,

Welcome to JustAnswer and thank you for the opportunity to assist you. Please remember that there might be a delay between your follow up questions and my answers because I may be helping other clients or taking a break.

What exactly do you need to know - how to phrase this in the final decree?

Customer replied 772 days and 8 hours ago.

Need the correct phrasing , at least in the Marital settlement agreement.Maybe another form needs to be generated. I am in touch with my ex & she will sign off as I will. We have been seperated for over 10 years.
If you like I can fax or email what I have now that seems to be incorrect . And the Superior court requirement page I was sent. If that would help with this.

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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 8 hours ago.

Hello,

The only way I can review this is if you attached it to the response.

What form number(s) are you using? What are you filling out at the moment?

Customer replied 772 days and 8 hours ago.

LA-020,FL-100,FL-110,FL-115,FL-117,FL-130,FL-140 X2 ,FL-141 X2 ,FL-142 X2 , FL-144, FL-150 X2 , FL-170, FL,180, FL-190, & THE MARITAL SETTLEMENT AGREEMENT (8 PAGES)
How do I attach to the response ?
I beleive the Spousal statement is what need to be modified.

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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 8 hours ago.

Thank you for the information.

I am not sure how to attach something, since you and I have different screens.

Let me ask this - have you actually filed the suit yet, or not yet?

Customer replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

Yes .
These , again , are legal zoom prepared forme.
It was rejected once for reasons that were corrected , then re filed & rejected a second time with more corections to be made. This will be the third filing. Legal zoon can not figure out the specific language needed to get through what the court wants in referance to Waiving of the spousal support.
On the page sent to me from the Superior Court , item #5 Termination of Jurisdiction over Spousal Support. If the marriage through seperation has lated longer than 10 years , the Court will not terminate jurisdiction over spousal support absent some language in the judgment which supports the conclusion that both parties are aware that they are giving up the right to any court order spousal support at any time in the future no matter what may happen.Obviously , the Respondent will not have given such a statement in a regular default proceeding (although the respondent may do soin a stipulated judgement or marital settlement agreement). Many attorneys make referance to IRMO Vomacka. Termination of jurisdiction over spousal support requires more than a mere request.
IRMO Vomacka was underlined & highlighted by the clerk.
Here is the wording that is in the Spousal Support section presantly.

Spousal Support. The Court terminates jurisdiction over the issue of spousal support. The parties terminate their right to receive spousal support now or at any time in the future. This termination shall not be modifiable by the parties or the court for any reason whatsoever. By executing this agreement, the parties agree and acknowledge that they understand that by terminating their ability to receive spousal support, they will be forever barred from seeking spousal support at any time in the future regardless of the circumstances.

This has been midified since the last rejection.

Do you have experiance with this kind of Document in a divorce proceeding for an over 10 year Settlement?




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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

May I ask if both you and the other party are showing up for Court to prove this up, or just you?

Also, did the other party sign the decree when you went to prove it up?

Customer replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

No this is uncontested & filed at the court.
My ex now lives in Fla.
She & I will sign off.

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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

You say will sign off, but did she before in previous attempts, and if so, was it notarized?

Customer replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

yes to both.

Customer replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

Will be away from the desk for a while.

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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

"omacka stands for the principle that any waiver of SS in a longer marriage must be with clear and convincing evidence that the supported party's needs will be satisfactorily met at the time of termination. The supporting party has the obligation to make it clear at the time of judgment that the waiver of SS is a permanent and binding obligation."

See here:

http://www.irvinelaw.com/SPOUSALS.HTM

"(T)o find from an agreement that there is a termination of spousal support, the Court must find explicit language of such termination” in the agreement."

Ergo, the language has to be clear in that both parties are giving up said rights, in the decree. Something akin to: "Both parties acknowledge and waive their rights to spousal support per Family Code §4320 et seq, doing so knowingly, not under duress, and with understanding of their rights and duties under the California Family Code and other relate statutes, as well as per In re Marriage of Vomacka (1984) 36 Cal.3d 459, 204 Cal.Rptr. 568, 683 P.2d 248).

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Expert:  Ely replied 772 days and 7 hours ago.

"omacka stands for the principle that any waiver of SS in a longer marriage must be with clear and convincing evidence that the supported party's needs will be satisfactorily met at the time of termination. The supporting party has the obligation to make it clear at the time of judgment that the waiver of SS is a permanent and binding obligation."

See here:

http://www.irvinelaw.com/SPOUSALS.HTM

"(T)o find from an agreement that there is a termination of spousal support, the Court must find explicit language of such termination” in the agreement."

Ergo, the language has to be clear in that both parties are giving up said rights, in the decree. Something akin to: "Both parties acknowledge and waive their rights to spousal support per Family Code §4320 et seq, doing so knowingly, not under duress, and with understanding of their rights and duties under the California Family Code and other relate statutes, as well as per In re Marriage of Vomacka (1984) 36 Cal.3d 459, 204 Cal.Rptr. 568, 683 P.2d 248)."

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Customer replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

Just curious. Should I include this statement starting from "both parties etc"as part of the Spousal Agreement or instead of what is there now?
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Expert:  Ely replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

Sorry, I do not understand what you mean?

Customer replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

In your answer , the paragraph beginning with Ergo ,you "Both parties acknowledge and waive their rights to spousal support per Family Code §4320 et seq, doing so knowingly, not under duress, and with understanding of their rights and duties under the California Family Code and other relate statutes, as well as per In re Marriage of Vomacka (1984) 36 Cal.3d 459, 204 Cal.Rptr. 568, 683 P.2d 248)."
That statement. Does it go after what I sent you - Spousal Support. The Court terminates jurisdiction over the issue of spousal support. The parties terminate their right to receive spousal support now or at any time in the future. This termination shall not be modifiable by the parties or the court for any reason whatsoever. By executing this agreement, the parties agree and acknowledge that they understand that by terminating their ability to receive spousal support, they will be forever barred from seeking spousal support at any time in the future regardless of the circumstances.
Or instead of it?
Or , should it be incorporated somehow?
I have a clerk working with me to be sure I have the correct info for the next filing of these papers.By the way.

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Expert:  Ely replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

Oh, I see. I meant instead.

However, please note that without actually talking to the clerk, it is hard to determine what was lacking. This was an educated guess. I do suggest calling the clerk to verify, and can give you the number if you tell me what court you are in.

In the end, it is best to have an attorney run through the decree (offer them $150 or so) and make sure it is in fine shape, just to avoid any more returns...

Customer replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

Once I have heard back from the clerk & had the docs re- done , I might do that.
Would you be interested in helping with that?
T

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Expert:  Ely replied 771 days and 8 hours ago.

T,

I cannot. JustAnswer prohibits its experts from taking customers on as clients; but I thank you for your vote of confidence.

Customer replied 770 days and 9 hours ago.

Can you recommend an atty. to go over my docs? Or , where would I find 1?
Thanks.
T

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Expert:  Ely replied 770 days and 6 hours ago.

T,

Sure. First, try the California Bar Referral Services:

http://www.calbar.ca.gov/Public/LawyerReferralServicesLRS.aspx

The attorneys are vetted and qualified, and the service is free.

Second, cross-reference with www.avvo.com, where you can see counsel listed by professional experience, areas of practice, and client reviews.

I believe that between these two resources, you should find someone that can help you.

Customer replied 770 days and 3 hours ago.

Thanks again.
T

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Expert:  Ely replied 770 days and 2 hours ago.

You are very welcome.

 
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