Dear Customer - I'm not certain how your ex could have gotten away with these incorrect facts in the first place since it is easy to prove the balance owing on a mortgage and a car loan etc. So those "facts" should have been corrected at the time and not been allowed to stand. In any event, the child support is based on the incomes of the parties according to pre set tables. So whatever the respective incomes are today will be the figures used to calculate the new support. Since the tables have certainly increased over the past 12 years I would assume you have probably been paying less than the amount that would have been calculated in recent years.
So you may see an increase in support simply because the figures used in the tables may have increased. If you are voluntarily paying extra for home schooling or other activities you can discontinue those payments to offset any increase in the court ordered amount. In addition, the support for the older child will be ending soon so that should also lower the overall support.
As for the house, I'm not certain if there was a time in which you were supposed to sell the property or exactly how the decree was written but if it says she gets half of the equity then that's what she gets. All of these other allegations seem frivolous and I would think that you can prove what the loan balances are and were at certain times since the bank would have all the records of payments and balances.The county court records will show when you bought the house so you can simply produce your deed record and your marriage license record and the dates will be on the documents.
Based on all these facts, she will probably get an increase in child support due to the tables being different today from what they were in 1999. If the decree says you have to sell the house within a certain time period it is possible you will have to either sell or buy her out. Beyond that you can probably show that her other allegations are lies and half truths. The documents in the courts and real estate records will speak for themselves.
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