Well, he needs to decide if he wants to leave, if he wants to stay and have custody of the children. If he wants to stay and have custody, then he can file for custody of the children and and eviction to have her removed from the home. He will want to consult with a local attorney to assist in this process. But he does have options. He only needs to decide which direction he wants to go. He does not owe her anything from the home, as long as it is in his name only. He would not owe her any support beyond temporary until she can get on her feet and since they are not divorced, she would need to sue him for anything she feels she is entitled to. But he has just as much right to custody of the children as she does.
Right. That is why she is not entitled to anything. And, if he is on the birth certificate he has rights as the biological parent.
If his name is XXXXX XXXXX home, he can sell it. He would not be responsible for bringing her to a new residence. He is legally responsible for the financial wellbeing of his children, but he can file for custody. So he would want to discuss the custody, visitation and child support issues with a local attorney
Well, he would need to charge her rent, right? So he needs to negoiate with her on a reasonable amount that she can afford until she gets on her feet.
Well, he is not legally responsible for her. He is not married to her. It sounds as if his conscience is getting the best of him. He needs to confer with a local attorney who can help him with getting the kids, and then she is on her own. Tough decisions for him. But he will need to decide to make a clean break.
He can tell her to start finding a job and he will rent to her, pay child support. This will all need to be done in writing. He should not leave it to verbal agreement.
Not really. He will need to file for temporary custody stating that she is being evicted and has no stable place for the children. Then he will need to begin the eviction process. Nothing is easy, unfortunately
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