One other tid bit. If you dont mind. My wife and him had spoke on the phone, and he said it would be fine if I adopted, if we made a paper stateing that my daughter would still be able to see him after I adopted we put a paper together and then he changed his mind. He has not been served with any papers and now I need to go to court to keep the case open with the judge. Basically he is dragging his feet and stringing us along. Does this information have any other bearing in you answer?
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