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1. If you paid for the doctor and hospital bills, you would have to sue him for reimbursement. However, in such an action you would have to also name your daughter in the lawsuit, that should be enough of an incentive for him to start paying. In addition, once you get a judgment, you can ask the Court for a Writ of Garnishment, serve it on his paymaster and a set amount would be taken directly out of his monthly pay and sent directly to you.
2. It is too late to bring any charges against him.
3. You would not be able to take your daughter or your grandchild as deductions on your income tax returns because she is married and her husband will use them as deductions on his income tax, so, you would only be inviting an audit by the Internal Revenue Service and you will be incurring penalties and interest on the amount which you should not have taken as deductions.
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80% of the Dotor Bills - has been paid by my insurance leaving about $4000.00 not paid should I tell the insurance company to recover the cost ? and want are the chances of winning if I do sue . If he knew he would have to pay everything even back to th insurance company I think i would have his ear and we could work something out.
Would you be will to send a letter stating to him what I could do .
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1. If the insurance company paid 80% of the bills, then I imagine the balance of $4,000 is the deductible. I doubt the insurance company would be willing to pay it, but you have nothing to lose by submitting them. If they pay the $4,000 then you have to tell me how you did it, so I can get my insurance company to pay 100% also, deal ? J
2. If you sue, you have an excellent chance of winning, but only the $4,000 that was not paid by the insurance company. You cannot sue for the full amount because that would be considered fraud.
3. You should not tell him that he might have to pay the insurance company the full amount because you would be jeopardizing yourself, it will almost be an admission that you do not believe that your insurance company should have covered your daughter's medical expenses and that you committed a fraud on the insurance company. So, I would stay away from that. Just tell him that he owes $4,000 for unreimbursed medical expenses and also that he had better start sending money to your daughter for support and that if he does not, she will file a Complaint for child support, then have the amount deducted by the quartermaster or whoever takes care of the payroll for service personnel. That ought to be an embarrassment for him because it will be like telling everyone he is a deadbeat dad who does not support his child.
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