Hello. As it stands right now, if his name is XXXXX XXXXX the birth certificate and you are not married to him, then he has no legal rights to your child. The only way he can obtain rights to your child is if he petitions the court for visitation rights. If he does that, the court will most definitely make him take a DNA test and establish parentage and the court will order him to pay a set amount of child support every week to you. However, if you are receiving any type of state or federal welfare benefits at this time OR you receive those benefits at any time in the future, the state's child support enforcement department will deny benefits to you and your child unless you name the father and then they will summons him, make him take a DNA test, and then make him pay weekly child support either directly to you or to the state to reimburse the state for any benefits that you might receive from the state. So, if you have no intention of seeking state benefits, then you need do nothing at this time unless / until he decides that he wants to petition a court for visitation rights -- then you do have the right to contest but if he pushes it, the court will order a DNA test over your objections and will acknowledge him as the father of the child AND grant visitation rights (along with ordering child support) to him when he decides that he wants to step forward and be a father to his/your child. If YOU try to bring a petition in front of a court to terminate his parental rights, the court will probably not permit it unless you are marrying another man who is adopting your child and who agrees to assume all financial responsibility for your child (which would let your ex off the hook completely). The days when a woman could simply leave a birth certificate blank and still receive state / federal benefits are over and ended with the DNA testing now done by courts all over the country -- because the DNA tests can pretty much conclusively prove that he is the father (before DNA there were no really conclusive tests that could prove parentage, so the courts and the state child support enforcement departments could not really enforce a parenting order against a man when the woman refused to name him as the father of the child -- it is a different story today and the state can pursue him whether you want them to or not).
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What if I already recieve benifits and they have not yet asked about her father? Will they ask later?
Yes, they will eventually get around to asking you who the father is and forcing you to name the father -- and they will cut off your benefits if you do not cooperate in naming him. I have seen this happen in many different states (including to family members of mine). The state will then make him pay child support if DNA is positive and if he wants visitation rights, he can petition the court to get those rights.
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