My husband and I, both over 35, just spent the past 7 years helping our daughter through a nasty divorce
, moving her 3 times, helping her raise 2 small children, 10 mo. and 3 at beginning, letting them live here 1 year, helping her though upgrade her education and buying her a car, not to mention thousands of dollars spent on the kids, her living expenses, etc. (over $150,000.) We told her she would need to pay us back many times and kept records but she never signed anything. She met a guy last Aug. and became serious very quickly, not telling us of marriage
plans...actually telling us they had NO plans for a very long time. We feel they scammed us for money to buy a house, buy her a washer and dryer, fix her car and new tires, etc....to the tune to another $12,000 in 2 months time. We made it clear the house was only for her and the girls and he was not to live there. He moved in the day after she did and gave her a ring the next month and they got married 5 months later. I investigated him and found him to be a liar, scam, criminal but not incarcarted, etc. They got mad I did the investigation so a "war" started between us and they went to the police and told lies to get a restraining order
on me, preventing me from attending the wedding and ow they won't let us see the grandkids we raised. We live in Arkansas. We want to see the grandaughters we helped raise. What can we do? This guy is very disrespectful, a fake and our daughter is totally blind and won't talk to us nor pay any money back to us. He is driving the car we bought her!