As to what to do, you can file an emergency motion to suspend and/or modify contact. The motion would detail what you've described here:
- He was checked into a psych ward
- His family lied to you about it
- You are concerned for his mental well-being
- You have a reasonable fear for the safety and well-being of the daughter while in the care and custody of her father due to his mental status
- The court should suspend or modify the custodial arrangement accordingly
You have a lot of options as to finding an attorney that can assist you in this matter.....
First, you should begin with your state bar association. The California State Bar has a website, it is located at www.calbar.ca.gov.
I do not know your county of residence but your county bar association likely has a similar site that will be more specific to your location.
Additionally, Martindale Hubbell is a national organization that rates attorneys across the country. Their website is located at http://www.martindale.com/.
Another nationwide website is located at http://www.avvo.com/. This site lists attorneys by geographic location and area of practice.
Additionally, there is quite likely a legal aid society in your area. A quick internet search and/or phone book search should locate the society closest to you.
Each of these resources will have a wealth of information as to attorneys in your area that handle such cases and that would provide services for free or at a reduced cost. I would suggest you check each site out and you will surely find a great number of attorneys that meet your needs. Pick a few to meet with in person so that you can thoroughly explain your situation and then retain the one that you feel can best represent your interests.
Also, please keep in mind that, if he makes significantly more than you do, you may be able to get the court to order him to pay your attorneys fees. Courts rarely award fees as a punitive measure, they are more typically awarded when one party makes more than the other to create an "equalizing" effect.
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