My divorce was finalized in California. Both my ex husband and our children, as well as my current husband and myself now reside in Nebraska. I am remarried, have sole physical and legal of our son, we have joint physical and legal of our daughter, ages 14 and 15 respectively. We all decided to move here together, to help each other financially, as well as for the children to have both parents- however, 2 weeks after we came here, my ex (who is diabetic, an amputee, and on dialysis) went to the hospital due to a back/bone infection that had been dormant for some time- as a result, he has not been back home again for almost a year, and is now in a nursing home with a myriad of problems due to his declining physical health, and I am told that the nursing home will be a permanent situation for him. I take care of his bills for him, as well as being his POA. My daughter has been living with me for 11 months now, and I need to see about modifying the original custody order to have myself as the custodial parent
(he was the custodial parent in the original document), as he is wanting to go back to California to be closer to his siblings. I don't know about Nebraska family law
issues, and I cannot seem to find a form to file for a modification regarding this. I cannot afford to hire an attorney to file it for me, however, I understand I have to file something in order to have the case moved to Nebraska jurisdiction, since we are both here at this time. Do you know what forms I would need, and can I file this on my own?