I am in the process of seeking visitation
of my daughter. I am trying to work things out with my ex-girlfriend. She is screaming at me saying that i am being greedy/selfish/controlling and demanding. She has two demands that she wants from me and those are:
A. Two weeks notice of my intent to visit or pick up my daughter. She says two weeks is fair cause she doesn't and shouldn't have to alter her plans for me to see my daughter.
B. She tells me that i am not allowed to talk to anyone but her reguarding the well being of our daughter.
I am asking for the following this is where she says i am selfish/greedy/controlling and demanding and her friends are backing her up. I am asking for:
A. 30 days written notice on both parties reguarding intent to move sent by certified mail
B. To have my daughter's birthday and All holidays every other year with the right to take her back to my side of the family. This shall not interfere with school
C. The right to have my daughter during summer vacation and to take her home as I want to with-out my ex-girlfriend.
D. 50/50 Joint, Legal and Physical custody
to be co-parents to our daughter and to be a father to my daughter.
E. A court order granting me the privilege of claiming her on my taxes
She claims that since her demands are low and that mine are long that a judge will automatically side with her and tell me that i am greedy / selfish/ controlling / demanding and that i will loose. I feel that what i have asked for is reasonable and very very fair and very generous. Is any of this two demanding? Also can i petition the courts to allow me to take my daughter home without my ex she claims that no court will grant me the right to take my daughter home. Also can any of this be used against me in court? she claims that i am stalking her and harassing her