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well, there is nothing you can do until she files. and when she does you can show that the children are well-adjusted, doing great in school are involved with extra curriculars and in the community, have friends in the area, etc.
you also can request the court to interview them in chambers, out of earshot of both of you, to see what they want to do. the court can use their desires in considering a change of custody
you also, can bring up the tax situation and that you feel she does not have their best interests in mind. but rather she wants to benefit herself.
thank you for that information. please tell me what it is you want to know in this regard with this information?