Your previous expert has opted out, but I am afraid that the news is not the best for you. When you have a case where a disabled child was awarded money in a court action, the court will set up what is known as a "trust" for the child and will appoint trustees and guardians over that child's property. In most cases, if the court does not feel the parent is fully capable of managing the trust for the child (they are not being mean, they are looking out for the interests of the child, not the parent) they will appoint a co-trustee/guardian to make sure that the parent does not make any mistakes that could cause the disabled child to lose the money that was awarded in the judgment. This whole system is for the protection of the child, even though you feel like it is hurting you.
If the co-trustee is not allowing the money from the judgment to be used for the care and maintenance of your son, then what you need to do is get an attorney (aside from the one already involved if that attorney does not want to help) and go to court with proof of why the money is needed for the child and how the co-guardian is denying legitimate use of the money. But I am afraid this is your only recourse, because the court will act here only to protect your child, not you as co-guardian.
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