If you are talking about returning the child to mother
at some point in time, then adoption would not be the best option for you. The courts look at adoption as a permanent solution and not something that would be done for a little while and then undone. The better option would be for mother to transfer voluntary guardianship
to you through the court system. This would give you the legal right to make all decisions for the child's health and care, but would stop just short of making the child legally your son or daughter.
You would need to file a petition for guardianship with the court and, assuming the mother is in agreement, this is a fairly simple process. The court will order social services to investigate to ensure that you can provide a suitable home and then file a report. Assuming everything goes ok, the court will sign off on the guardianship petition and you would assume that legal role for the child.
At some point in time in the future if everyone agrees the mother can care for the child, you then make a motion to the court to terminate the guardianship and restore the child to the mother.
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