You need not wait for the ex to file in Idaho. You can file in Texas, as you meet the residency requirements. A suit for divorce in Texas may not be maintained in this state unless at the time the suit is filed either the petitioner (you) or the respondent (not applicable) has been: (1) a domiciliary of this state for the preceding six-month period; and (2) a resident of the county in which the suit is filed for the preceding 90-day period. If one spouse (you) has been a domiciliary of this state for at least the last six months, a spouse domiciled in another state (your ex) or nation may file a suit for divorce in the county in which the domiciliary spouse resides at the time the petition is filed. So, he could file in Texas, but apparently he is not interested in pursuing divorce, so you will have to.
Good luck. This may actually be better for you, since he will be inconvenienced by waiting, because now he will have to address the matter in Texas.
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