Do you also live in NJ or where?
Do you know where she moved to - do you have her address?
yes i do live in nj..i have no kids with her..
i live in hackensack nj and also my house where she resided is in hackensack.
i have been separated for 3 yrs now. I moved out of the house completely in 2007.
Then you will have to file for divorce in NJ.
Do you have an attorney?
Will she consent to the divorce?
no attorney..she will but i do not know where to find her. what do you think is my best strategy?
Uh oh. That can be expensive - that the court make you advertise the divorce in local newspapers.
Do you know of anyone who might know of her whereabouts that you can contact?
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