When I married, my wife wanted me to adopt her kids. she begged even threatened with leaving me if I didn't. Just 6 months after we began to have problems a year or so later she cheated on me and were divorced. Is there anyway I can dissolve the adoption?
YES, there is way you can dissolve the adoption, but it would be most difficult and would require the involvement and consent of your ex-wife.
In sum, your adoption of your wife’s children (which established you in the eyes of the law as being the children’s legal father, the same as if the children were born to you and your wife while married to one another) can be undone (dissolved) ONLY by the children being adopted by some other man. The other man will thereby become the child’s “new” father, as a matter of law, in place of you, and he would then assume all legal rights and legal responsibilities in your place. Of course, this would necessarily require the mother
’s consent and active involvement.
So all you have to do is to recruit some other man to adopt your children. And that is how you would “dissolve” the prior adoption.
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