You will need an attorney to proceed, especially with the NJ courts which do not like to deal with pro se
litigants. You will need to put together all of your payment history, the court order of support and the evidence of the status of the children to present to the court. This will work to terminate future support, but any past support you will have to litigate back to when each child became inelligible for support under the court order. The child support division is a big machine and generally does not work well absent a direct court order to them. Any back support that you actually owe will have to be paid and the attorney will force them to give you an itemized statement of arrears to show what they have collected and what is still owed.
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