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I plan to tell my husband of 11 years of marraige (w/ 6-yr.

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I plan to tell my husband of 11 years of marraige (w/ 6-yr. old twins) that I want to divorce him. However, financial matters make it necessary for us all to keep living under our jointly owned house for the next 6 -- 12 months.   I would like to "move on" with my personal life, however, I want to protect myself against any perceived wrong-doings on my part effective from the date I announce my intent of divorcing him. Do I need some type of a separation agreement as well as a co-habitation agreement. I live in N.J. How costly can I expect these initial documents to be?
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  RayAnswers replied 7 years ago.
Thanks for your question. You would be wise her to be real careful dating here. Ther is no true way to protect yourself here while custody is at stake. You are still considered married here and adultery can be a potential problem. Unless you can agree to temporary orders here that would state that cohabitation is allowed then you are at risk.

The lawyer her can draft such agreed orders here in this matter. And you can agree to a separation date here even if you continue to live together. A lawyer really can do this as part of a divorce. It wouldn't be an added expense but part of the process here.

The costs of divorce are based on how much people agree and how much they fight. More agreement equals much less cost here. A lawyer from the out set can make all of this more smoother here and make sure you get the settlement and orders you want and deserve. I wish you good luck in moving on here..


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