The thing is, I can go back out of the state if I need to. It just puts a strain on my marriage, and my father is very sick with cancer, and I am the only one he has to take care of him. Believe me, I WILL go to MEXICO before I play russian roullette with my children, After this is over with, I WILL never put mysself in this situation again.
The county I live in is well known for follicle drug screening, and the county I am considering moving to is not. I purchased follicle shampoo before leaving and decided that it was not worth it. Know nothing aboutt them. Any word on that?
If when I move to the next county over, they show up....(usually I am not home during daytime hours) I will leave again. I am not concerned with passing a urine. I can. Its the follicle. (goes back 90 days)
At this point, I have not failed anything, and actually the day I met with the socal worker she sent me to take a drug screen across the street and they were closed for emeergeny purposes....(THANK THE LORD) She knows I went to take it, so I hope me leaving doesnt make it an automatic positve. This was on a Friday that I went and they were closed, so I left Monday morning. I also called and left several messages with her on her voicemail and her supervisors and never got a response. I am just gonna say I was moving anyways because I found out my husband had an affair. She may not believe me, but I really could care less. No different from the person who called with these alligations. She doesnt know what was going on in my life before she came out.
I had a note on my door on Thur., called her the same day, she asked me to come into her office the next day and I did. She sent me to do the test and it was closed. I feel like I complied with what she asked. No court orders or any case plans signed at this point all they have is someones alligations.
Also on Friday (our appt) she went ahead and scheduled our next appt at my home for the 16th (Fri) to meet with me and my husband and the children. My husband was here waiting on her and she never called or showed. I assume she has closed the case after verifying the kids were enrolled in school in another state.
Please send me a site with PARENTS rights for DFCS