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First, I am very sorry that you have suffered a tragedy in your family. You have my sympathies.
With regard to question: Your facts are scarce, but of course, if you are not amenable to what he wants, you must oppose any Motion he cares to make. I assume he has not made the Motion, but is only threatening? If you live in Texas, he may have to file in your TX county, which will have jurisdiction if you have lived there more than 6 months, which may sway him to not bother.
I am a bit confused on your statement that you "allowed the father visitation." Since you have a custody order, was there not a visitation order there as well? (I say this because generally the father would have the right to visitation with his children.) Also, what is going on with the children's names? Was it his last name at one time and did you change it to something else? Or was it never his last name?
In any event, you need to make sure that if you two can't agree on the changes he wants, and if he files a Motion seeking these changes, that you OPPOSE the motion. You have to make sure to read the papers you are served with and file a written Answer opposing, to better ensure that he does not win by default.
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Are you saying that one of his demands that he wants is to claim them on his tax return rather than YOU claiming them? I think you will have better chances of winning that one, particularly since he isn't even paying his support, how can he expect to write them off? lol, he is overly demanding, isn't he? I don't see you having a big problem here, a judge WON'T be happy with him. AND, make sure that if he does file a motion, that you Answer and include in that answer a Cross Motion to enforce child support and/or seeking incarceration for contempt of the child support. Let him know that if you have to take the time to go to court, you will have no choice but to have the courts enforce the CS order that he has been violating. I can not see him pushing that envelope (although some guys just aren't so bright, I know :)
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