Hi and thanks for your question.
Unfortunately even though it takes 2 people to get married, it only takes 1 to get divorced. You should first talk to your husband and tell him you want to try to work on the marriage. If he doesn't agree and files then you could request that the court order marriage counseling. Sometimes the courts will allow this. Otherwise, there isn't much you can do legally to prevent the process from moving forward toward the inevitable end result of a divorce. Make sure that you comply with all deadlines and that you remain involved in your case - the worse you can do would be to ignore everything because it will move forward without you and if you don't respond or participate, the court would issue a default order against you.
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