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Could you please clarify for me on what date the CS order came through and on what date each monthly ordered payment was to beging?
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You are smart! And I appreciate your planning, because many a payor can be trying to do the right thing, only to have it disregarded by payee in the future. Generally, your past payments will have no effect on future obligations, as the past has its own moral obligation for child support from both parents (I say moral, because you are not violating any Court Order until there is a Court Order (but see caveat, below). However, generally there will be no arrears owed at the time of a first time Court Order, as arrears arise (??) when you fail to pay monthly court ordered payments in full each month (again, if your child received welfare, different story). Thus, you can voluntarily pay what you think you morally and responsibly should now. I strongly recommend that you NEVER give cash, always give it in check, and notate on that check that it is for supporting "johnnie" or whatever. Keep EVERYTHING nearl forever :)
Caveate: In California, the CSE agency may file a civil action to recover back child support for periods in which the child received AFDC even though you weren't necessarily on notice previously.
One of the most significant differences between a welfare case and a nonwelfare case is that the nonaid custodial parent is not able to obtain a retroactive child support order for periods of time prior to the filing of the civil action for child support. Unlike the welfare case where reimbursement for prior welfare payments can be set retroactively, child support in a nonaid case can begin only from the date the complaint has been filed.
Here is a link to the child support guidelines information for Calfornia. (https://www.cse.ca.gov/ChildSupport/cse/guidelineCalculator).
Good luck with your decision - for the record, I think giving CS now is good thing, and your child will never have to look back and know that you refused to support him back in the day. However, take a look at the guidelines - you may want to consider staying within them and not going over now, in any event. On the sly you can always save money for you child in your own way, that you can give to him much later, if you feel you have extra to give. You give it to the custodial parent now, it will be likelly spent for whatever b/c it is there - you save it, earn interest, etc. and it could be a nice form of help when the child is 18, 25, whathave you, or even for IRA purposed and his/her retirement next egg! Just a personal recommendation for anyone with excess :)
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