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Your husband has to make a Motion before the Court to enforce his vistiation rights that you indicate he has. He can do this pro-se without an attorney, but he must take great care then to review the forms (he can get them from the Court) and do his homework. Include documentation of his attempts to see the child and when he was last able to do so. If phone calls have been made by him only to be brushed off by the child's caretaker/guardian, include those as attachments to his affidavit/certification included in support of his motion - to help prove he has been trying. I would emphaticaly recommend that he not talk about the 'either / or' situation you mention: "he eithier wants to get visitation and pay support or let the people that have her adopt her or he will give up righs and stop paying. one or the other " - this will definitely give the impression to the Judge that he doesn't care if he sees the child, only that he definitely doesn't want to pay if he can't see her. Remember, the Judge wants to always know that the parent loves the child and cares about the child's best interests - not that the parent is willing to sell the relationship back to the court to save on child support. (I do realize that he is frustrated and in all likelihood this is not how he feels, but being denied visitation wrongfully is extremely upsetting to him.)
Good luck with this and be proactive, this could be resolved shortly by making this Motion.
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