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Generally speaking and based only on the information contained in your post, at the present time both you and the father have equal rights. Each parent, absent a custody order or court proceeding, has the right to relocate or travel with his child as he sees fit.
This means that without a custody order you can take your children anywhere. This also means that without a custody order the father can take his children anywhere. There is no legal restriction to you relocating to a different state.
When a custody action is filed, it must be filed in the home state of the children. The home state is the state in which the children have lived for the six months prior to filing.
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