I guess my questions and answers do seem a bit convoluted. I am trying to keep our marriage together. I want to get back to gether withher. However, she says she wants a divorce
but then she goes and does things to aggravate and hurt me such as sending me a text message that says she went out last night and stayed out all night and had a great time and was glad I wasnt there. Why even tell me that?
Here is the predicament that I am in, we have three properties, two which were purchased jointly and are held in joint tenancy
. the third the one we lived in she had when we got married. This is the one that I spent all my money on improving and it is the one that I want to recover the money from. I have spent around $30K on this place and if I am to lose this marriage, I want to get my money back.
A second property we own as joint tenants is where her daughter lives free of charge. I want to sell that place and once again recover my equity in the property.
The third property we own as joint tenants is actually occupied by paying renters. They pay me and I pay the mortgage company. They want to buy the place which is okay with me. I dont expect to reap anything from this sale. Just get out of it.
Now of course my wife doesnt want to sell anything except the rental property where we actually have renters. she doesnt want to sell the place where the daughter lives free of charge. She doesnt want to give me any of the money that I invested in any of these places especially the one she and I lived in. she basically wants to keep everything and get rid of me.
At this point I dont even know what rights I have to enter these places and I dont want to run afoul of the law.
I dont know how to proceed to either leverage her to get us back together or leverage her out of the way to get my money.