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Private off the boooks agreements with Ex concerning child support are very risky - she could come after you a year from now and the deal will mean nothing to a judge - much better to get it in writing and present it to the Court and have the court approve it! Then you will be okay!
All the best,
Either way, probably she will want to have her lawyer review it - just get the judge to "approve"!