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This seems very extreme. You may have grounds to seek a restraining order preventing her from texting you these types of messages. Additionally, you can go into court for an order requesting that the parents stop discussing you in front of the children. The children should not be amidst this conflict, nor should they feel forced to choose between parents. This may be construed as an attempt at parental alienation, an attempt to alienate you from your children. Courts frown on this type of behavior.
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