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Staying with your "medical analogy", a doctor with poor bedside manner, (the condescending tone of your reply) may inadvertently discourage patients from seeking medical (legal) advice when they should.
I'm sure your meant well, you just came off looking like the legal version of "House". (A TV show character who's ill-mannered contemptuous rude behavior towards his patients and colleagues is over looked because he is so adept at his job.)
Unfortunately, your "bawling out" did not provide me with any new or useful information. Nevertheless, I did noticed that you have provided information to the SPARC website, and because I have used the resources available there, (time tracker EXTREMLY helpful) I have no problem "accepting" your answer.