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I have a mother who manipulates our child, with whom we ...

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I have a mother who manipulates our child, with whom we have joint custody and believes since she has custodial custody, makes her decisions for our daughter and not include me. She does not have her voice mail set up so she will only answer the phone when she needs something otherwise I will have to keep calling until she is ready to talk. When we argue she has our daugther think that I am a bad father and has her call me and leave me messages on my phone calling me a loser and a liar. She will not let me speak with my daughter and then have our daughter say that she does not want to speak with me and that she is mad at me. She left her nintendo ds in my car last week and is telling our daughter that I am keeping it from her. I have made several attempts to get this back to her but her mother keeps hanging the phone up on me and then have our daughter leave malice messages on my phone and denying me rights to my daugther. Can I go to court and get her to quit doing these things
Submitted: 9 years ago.
Category: Family Law
Expert:  Attorney & Mediator replied 9 years ago.
Anytime when a parent manipulates the emotional well-being of the child or attempts to destroy the relationship between the other parent and the child, the parent has the right to petition the court for a modification review hearing for the court to review these issues and to decide whether custody should be taken away from the parent manipulating and destroying the relationship. So based on the information you have posted here, I see that you do have grounds to file for this review hearing.

It would be best to have ready a diary of the times and dates that the mother behaves this way to show a pattern of her behavior and what she says. If you have messages that she left in your voicemail showing her behavior you can present those as evidence. The judge will want to see evidence of the mother's behavior to consider the modification hearing or to sanction the mother for her desire to destroy your bond and relationship with your daughter.


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