Hi. I'm online and happy to answer your question today.
It sounds like you have already tried all the available OTC medicines that I would recommend :(
For your eyes, stay away from any drop that says it is for "getting the red out" as they will just make things worse in the long run. I would use artificial tears to soothe you eyes as well as cold compresses.
Does this make sense to you?
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