Hi. I'm online and happy to answer your question today.
As a husband, and past patient myself, I can fully understand the "not being a nice patient" Us guys just don't do pain well.....
Okay I'm listening
that's putting it mildly
To make a moist hot compress, take a clean wash cloth, soak it in hot tap water, wring it out so it doesn't drip all over your loving, wonderful, kind and caring (lol) husband and place it on the affected area. I
If needed you can warm it gently in the microwave if the tap water is not warm enough.
Does this make sense to you?
Yes, simple is good
He wanted me to buy a small hydroxilater