If it is a melanoma, it usually means the eyeball is removed, however, Dr's Shields at Wills Eye Hospital are able to save the eye in some cases of melanoma. I really don't know any good ocular oncologists in the Northern California area although I am sure there may be one at UCSF. If it were me or one of my family members I would go see Dr. Jerry or Carol Shields at Wills Eye Hospital in Philadelphia.
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