Is it close the eye lash?
the little bump is, but the redness spreads inward
It sounds mostly likely a stye. The redness could be from the stye starting to drain.
even though it never came to a head? It almost looks like a little open canker sore
Yes, it doesn't always have to come to a head.
I recommend you continue the warm compresses.
If it worsens, then you may consider seeing your ophthalmologist who may recommend antibiotics.
ok, thanks, XXXXX XXXXX a week. at what time should i see a dr if it doesnt get better?
sorry, you answered while i sent
As long as it is getting better, you should be OK.
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