Hello and thank you for your question.
There are a couple of diagnoses that this sounds consistent with. A red eye that causes this throbbing that wakes you from sleep sounds consistent with scleritis. This is an inflammation of the white part of the eye that can often be associated with auto-immune disease.
This could also represent a chronic angle closure glaucoma scenario, where the eye becomes intermittently red, achy/throbbing and can also be associated with decreased vision and colored halos around lights.
Dry eye can be exacerbated by this inflammation in your eyelids (blepharitis) and is what you use the occusoft lid scrub for. A severe dry eye can also cause these types of symptoms.
I suspect this may be scleritis which I spoke about first. It is very important to have this looked at by an ophthalmologist as there can be profound implications to the health of the eye.
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