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The ban did disclose private information that should have not been disclosed. You could sue them for such violations but it would come down to what type of damages you would be entitled to. What type of injury did this event cause you? A lawsuit costs a lot of time and money to prosecute. Perhaps sending a letter explaining to the bank that they invaded your privacy may be the best thing under these circumstances and move on. but if such violations caused so much turmoil between you and your family it may be worth it to file suit.
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