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Assuming the home is community property, your husband cannot take the equity out and use if for his own personal pleasures. As a spouse, you are entitled to half of the proceeds in connection to the real estate. Perhaps send written correspondence requesting half od the equity monies. Additionally, look into retaining divorce counsel. Where are you located in California, I may have a referral to a family lawyer that is extremely reasonably priced depending on your location.
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