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I am concerned about privacy. The info in that letter was used to sue me for his retirement money.
Because this question involves a legal issue it is more of a question for an attorney. I am going to opt out of this question and recategorize it as a legal, not a fraud question because it involves an active lawsuit. I am sorry for any inconvenience this may cause you but I want to ensure your question is answered by the most qualified expert.
Thanks Joe. I was surprised that it wasn't sent to an attorney -- that's what I thought I was getting. No offense :-)
Not Joe's fault...I was sent to the wrong expert.
I should not have to pay ANYTHING for this, btw.
I'm going to be very upset if I've been charged $45 and not been given an answer.
Hi Sir or Madam, I'm Thomas and will be happy to assist you. My goal is to make you a very satisfied customer! Thanks in advance for your patience.No, it is not illegal for them to have opened the mail that was delivered to them even though it was addressed to your husband. It also was not wrongful for them to bring a suit to challenge the beneficiary designation for the retirement account based on the knowledge they were not the beneficiaries.Unfortunately, your only option is to argue against their claims and defend yourself as the rightful beneficiary of the funds. They really have absolutely no grounds to challenge you as the rightful beneficiary if he changed the beneficiary to you after you were married. This is especially true if you were still married at the time of his death. You need to retain a local attorney that can assist you in the court proceedings and protect the funds since you are the rightful beneficiary.
I am working with an attorney on the suit. I was just curious about the legality of the initial cause of the entire problem to begin with -- the opening of that letter that was not intended for them.
I simply don't understand why it's ok for them to open that letter. I thought it was illegal to open mail that isn't addressed to you? He had not passed away yet -- it was before he died. The letter was dated about nine days prior to his passing. And, further I am the executrix of the estate. Does this change anything?
I am aware that I am the legitimate beneficiary. And yes, we were married at the time of his death. I feel sorry that they are dealing with their grief in such an unfortunate way as to attack me. My main concern is looking at all angles on this.
And, I also don't understand why the mutual fund company even sent that letter to that address when we had formally changed our address with them on all of his investments. That letter should never have been sent in the first place.
You totally hit the nail on the head! It is an extremely frustrating experience when it seems others are using the system to "victimize" (I hate that word because I don't want to be one) another person.
Thank you for your understanding. I am grateful for your taking the time to answer each of my points. I truly am amazed that a person's privacy CAN BE INVADED and result in a lawsuit (a frivolous and possibly malicious one at that) and that it's not illegal. Lesson learned.