my mom passed away on June 5, 2012. My sister is executor of her estate
. In March of 2010 my sister told me that we were both in the will, and that everything would be split between us.
I have not heard a word from her in over a year. My sister and I do not speak to each other (her Choice). The only time she spoke to me was before she put Mom into a assisted living facilaty. The day after she had put Mom there she went back to my mom's home and randsacked the whole place, taking money, jewelery, silver and anything that was of any value. She asked me what I wanted, but I only was given things that my sister did not want.
While my mom was still alive I asked her for a loan of $1300. I wrote on the check that it was a loan. I wanted to pay her back, but I didn't have the money and I explained that to her. She said to forget about it and just take care of myself.
My sister also told me that "SHE" was paying all of Mom's bills and had all the receipts, and that she would be getting all that money back, and there would probably be nothing for me. Is that legal. I've always told my son that I think she has taken my name off the will.
My Mom had invested with Morgan-Stanley, and I did get quite a bit of money from that.
Perhaps my sister feels that the rest of Mom's estate is just for her. What kinds of rights do I have? I am 3 1/2 years older than my sister. If you could give me some advise or tell me who I can contact, I'd really appreciate it.
I live in Pa, while my sister lives in NJ.