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Unfortunately, they are kind of right.
But not exactly. You would be trespassing if the owner of the property told you not to enter but at this time the owner is "The Estate of..." your ex-husband and the only rights they have to the property are "potential rights" or "anticipatory rights" unless one of them have been appointed as executor of the estate by the court.
However, what you can do is hire an attorney and file a motion for the court to revisit the issue of ownership of the house. Since the never refinanced and "held you harmless" then he was technically in violation of the court order and the court can revisit the ownership issue.
However, you are going to have an issue because even though the original order was through a family court the estate has to be handled through the probate court and so you will likely have to file to open a probate and then address this issue. The probate judge can sever this issue out and send it to the family court to handle or can choose to handle it in the probate court.
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