Hi; My goal is to provide you with great service - if you have any questions during our chat, please ask! I'll do my best to ensure your satisfaction!
I am sorry to hear of your loss. One moment as I review your question.
Did you have a written agreement with your mom regarding reimbursement of expenses?
As for any bills paid out as executor, an executor is entitled to reasonable expenses incurred in settling the estate. In fact, some times the executor may receive compensation. Did the will specify this?
No I did not have a written agreement with my Mom regarding reimbursement of expenses.
There was not an amount specified in will but WV does allow a 5% executor fee to be paid by law
Do you have copies of receipts for the last 10 years of her life?
yes, I do
OK; one moment please.
Generally, other than funeral expenses, a family member would not be reimbursed for expenses incurred during the life of the decedent. (I am including funeral expenses because these can be pre-paid). This is particularly so if the will does not specify that a debt is owing to a person and should be satisfied from the estate. However, the siblings may voluntarily reimburse the caretaker sibling, and is more likely to do so if there is adequate proof of justifiable expenses. However, absent a conservatorship/guardianship, it is difficult to insist on reimbursement after the passing of the person.
Okay, am fairly certain there will be no voluntary reimbursement. Thank you for your assistance.
However, please see attached: http://www.legis.state.wv.us/WVCODE/ChapterEntire.cfm?chap=55&art=7§ion=6 - under WV's wrongful death statute, the judge may distribute the proceeds as he deems to be just.
In such a case, where one child assumed primary responsibility for a parent, it would seem just to reimburse that child; so it will depend on the judge's definition of just. Meanwhile, you should start itemizing your receipts so it's easy to review (i.e. spreadsheet).
I understand but have no desire to take this to court...just want it over, I will submit bills taken care of after her death for reimbursement and move forward. Thank you
You are welcome. I can understand that consideration.
DISCLAIMER: Answers from Experts on JustAnswer are not substitutes for the advice of an attorney. JustAnswer is a public forum and questions and responses are not private or confidential or protected by the attorney-client privilege. The Expert above is not your attorney, and the response above is not legal advice. You should not read this response to propose specific action or address specific circumstances, but only to give you a sense of general principles of law that might affect the situation you describe. Application of these general principles to particular circumstances must be done by a lawyer who has spoken with you in confidence, learned all relevant information, and explored various options. Before acting on these general principles, you should hire a lawyer licensed to practice law in the jurisdiction to which your question pertains.
The responses above are from individual Experts, not JustAnswer. The site and services are provided “as is”. To view the verified credential of an Expert, click on the “Verified” symbol in the Expert’s profile. This site is not for emergency questions which should be directed immediately by telephone or in-person to qualified professionals. Please carefully read the Terms of Service (last updated February 8, 2012).