Unfortunately, there are limited grounds to remove a trustee and him being abusive would not be one as it is not considered to be a breach of fiduciary duty. A trustee may be removed only for breach of fiduciary duty to the beneficiary or the trust or for not being able or willing to manage the trust and perform duties of trustee. Him getting mad and yelling at you is neither a breach of duty or an inability to manage the trust and as such it would not be grounds to get him removed. The reasonableness is in management of the trust and following the directives in the trust, there is no law saying he has to be nice to you and as long as he can show he is following the terms of the trust and not mismanaging the trust, the court will not remove him.
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